"As has been alluded to in another comment: Which other languages that compare to perl have you actually looked at?"
I am very familiar with all of the languages that you mention. They are all great languages in their own right. My comment however was about Perl's ability to easily evolve the core language via contributions from its community, as opposed to other languages that require a lenghty process performed by the core maintainers of the language. This allows Perl to evolve at a much faster pace than other languages. A lot of your points do not seem relevant in that context.
"Python has rich meta-programming."
Who cares? So do most modern languages.
"Ruby has (almost) single-handedly super-hyped and re-invented the idea of domain specific languages (DSLs)."
The Perl community has been writing DSL's since before most people had heard of Ruby. Real DSL's. Not just invoking functions without parens and labeling it a DSL, as is often done in the Ruby community. Ruby in no way invented or re-invented anything having to do with DSL's.
"Lisp is of course all about this (as is Forth)."
Agreed. Lisp macros are very powerful. Lisp is a great example of a language that can do this.
"I'm very much on the burnt-by-crazy-old-nasty-perl-legacy-crap side of the fence -- but I can't deny that I see some of the reasons why people would like to use perl -- it's just not for me."
This is a common complaint. People have had to deal with Perl code that they do not understand. It may have been poorly written, or it may have been perfectly written Perl code. If you do not take the time to learn Perl, you would not know the difference. The most common reaction is to blame the language.
"Still -- it's a bit strange to see the claim that perl is somehow much more flexible than other comparable languages."
It may be strange to you because you are not very familiar with Perl.