I really don't understand the obsession with owning a home. So many people I know expend their entire savings on buying a town home or a condo or some other place where you might as well rent an apartment. But the dream of "being a homeowner" is somehow worth it. It's always struck me as something of a con. Any tax benefits you might see are offset by the much higher monthly mortgage payment. * note my experience is…
My girlfriend and I bought a house together a year after we finished university. We're now married. We found a beautiful 100-year old brick house in a village in the UK an hour from my work, 30 minutes from hers. It's just big enough for the family that we want in the future so we're not planning on moving.
We bought it because we wanted to have our own space to live and raise a family in. Every penny that we pay off is ours in equity. The interest base rate is so insanely low (0.5% in the UK) that we hardly pay any interest on the mortgage. We've worked hard to pay off as much of the mortgage as possible, forgoing holidays for a couple of years, so it's now more ours than the banks. In a decade or two it will be ours entirely. If we rented (and some of the houses in the village can be rented) we would pay twice as much each month and having nothing to show for it after decades.
We're close to two major UK cities, so we are not out in the sticks. We're both young academics, so we are certainly not rich.
As a couple we have a lot of fun decorating, remodelling and maintaining it. The previous owners had windows that weren't in keeping with the style so together we replaced them with hand crafted sash windows. Every summer we spend a glorious weekend having fun painting all the woodwork together.
When we die we will be able to pass on our house and its value to our children. It will be the house they grew up in, in the village they grew up in. They will either be able to sell it to get our life savings, meaning they or their children can buy their dream home, or perhaps they'll build a family in it as well.
Having your own house is about having your own space - your own castle.