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> The people involved all seem very... Full of themselves ? Kinda like Mensa?
When I was a kid I wanted to be in Mensa because being smart was a big part of my identity and I was constantly seeking external validation. I’m so glad I didn’t join because being around the types of adults that make being smart their identity surely would have had some corrosive effects
However I'm always surprised how much some people want to talk about intelligence. I mean, it's the common ground of the group in this case, but still.