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One hundred and one rules of effective living

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Re: One hundred and one rules of effective living

#61

More like how to be mediocre boring life advice

Odd that this list made you so angry you had to post how boring the people who follow must be? I feel sorry for you. Honestly. Judgement of others tends to make people miserable.

Do you always assume that someone who disagrees with you must have been angry about it?

Re: One hundred and one rules of effective living

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post #61

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Odd that this list made you so angry you had to post how boring the people who follow must be? I feel sorry for you. Honestly. Judgement of others tends to make people miserable.

Do you always assume that someone who disagrees with you must have been angry about it?

When they use angry phrasing yes. It’s not a difficult concept, reading comprehension. Except maybe it is for the TikTok generation.

Re: One hundred and one rules of effective living

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“35) Give no second chances to anyone who shows disrespect“ This is one of the worst rules I have ever read. Taken literally it can squander a life otherwise well lived.

Yeah, might as well make the rule "35) Be inflexible and cruel when it suits you."

I like that phrasing of it more. Someone following it will live pretty effectively.

Re: One hundred and one rules of effective living

#66

> Prepare for the day when your best friend betrays you. Before you strap those extra rounds of ammo to your vest, may I suggest simply finding better friends? There's several on the list that sound a bit paranoid to me. And many more that make it feel like I'm being scolded by a schoolmarm. But there's definitely some gems. My favorite... > Cynics know nothing.

When I first glanced at your post I thought you were pointing out the irony of contrast between your first and last line.

Re: One hundred and one rules of effective living

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I've always like Ben Franklin's 13 virtues. It's a short list. TEMPERANCE. Eat not to dullness; drink not to elevation. SILENCE. Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself; avoid trifling conversation. ORDER. Let all your things have their places; let each part of your business have its time. RESOLUTION. Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve. FRUGALITY. Make no expense but to…

AIUI these are from his autobiography, which he wrote during the last 20 years of his life. I wonder if he wrote this section before his decade in France? As I understand it, while there, he very intentionally led a life with little temperance, silence, frugality, moderation, and chastity.

Re: One hundred and one rules of effective living

#69
I've narrowed my algorithm to three (not so simple) rules:

1. Know yourself.

2. Work hard.

3. Serve others.

I think 90% of unhappiness comes from violating at least one of these rules.

Conversely, of course, following these rules doesn't guarantee happiness, but (I think) it increases your chances.

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