I think tech can still be beautiful in a less grandiose and "omniparadisical" way than people used to dream of. "A wide open internet, free as in speech this, free as in beer that, open source wonders, open gardens..." Well, there are a lot of incentives that fight that, and game theory wins. Maybe we download software dependencies from our friends, the ones we actually trust. Maybe we write more code ourselves--more homesteading families that raise their own chickens, jar their own pickled carrots, and code their own networking utilities. Maybe we operate on servers we own, or our friends own, and we don't get blindsided by news that the platforms are selling our data and scraping it for training.
Maybe it's less convenient and more expensive and onerous. Do good things require hard work? Or did we expect everyone to ignore incentives forever while the trillion-dollar hyperscalers fought for an open and noble internet and then wrapped it in affordable consumer products to our delight?
It reminds me of the post here a few weeks ago about how Netflix used to be good and "maybe I want a faster horse" - we want things to be built for us, easily, cheaply, conveniently, by companies, and we want those companies not to succumb to enshittification - but somehow when the companies just follow the game theory and turn everything into a TikToky neural-networks-maximizing-engagement-infinite-scroll-experience, it's their fault, and not ours for going with the easy path while hoping the corporations would not take the easy path.