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My Scammer Girlfriend: Baiting a Romance Fraudster

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Re: My Scammer Girlfriend: Baiting a Romance Fraudster

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These scams are sad and horrible. I find it hard not to put some blame on the victim though. At the end of the day you are are responsible for watching out for yourself. When I look at the pictures of these people scammed. They are most often unattractive and unaccomplished people that believe suddenly a good looking international fashion model or a Harvard Doctor is inexplicably interested in them. I know its kinda…

The scammer just has to catch the victim at their worst moment. Tired? Drunk? Undergoing a personal crisis? Maybe the scam just hit exactly the right formula to trick you-- you'd just been on the phone with comcast and then a scammer pretending to be comcast just happens to call back at the right time.

Sure, some of their victims would always for it, though I suspect they're a small minority. But everyone can be scammed.

Re: My Scammer Girlfriend: Baiting a Romance Fraudster

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These scams are sad and horrible. I find it hard not to put some blame on the victim though. At the end of the day you are are responsible for watching out for yourself. When I look at the pictures of these people scammed. They are most often unattractive and unaccomplished people that believe suddenly a good looking international fashion model or a Harvard Doctor is inexplicably interested in them. I know its kinda…

The scammer just has to catch the victim at their worst moment. Tired? Drunk? Undergoing a personal crisis? Maybe the scam just hit exactly the right formula to trick you-- you'd just been on the phone with comcast and then a scammer pretending to be comcast just happens to call back at the right time. Sure, some of their victims would always for it, though I suspect they're a small minority. But everyone can be scam…

Sure maybe a one off for a moderate sum say I've been a bit interested in this and have seem many interviews with the scammed people. Almost all of them admit after the fact looking back they made the choice to go along with it and at least were partially to blame from their own perspective.

I find the entire social dynamic interesting.

Give me money I will maybe give you something. Ok here is the money.

How have we gotten to a point where this very obvious psychological dynamic is such a huge problem? What can be done to mitigate it?

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