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There is just no way that reasonable people consider this to be clearer. One certainly might be more familiar with this approach, but it is less clear by a long shot. You've added a temp variable for the result, manual appending to that temp variable (which introduces a performance regression from having to periodically grow the array), loop variables, unused variables, multiple layers of nesting, and conditional log…
Everything you said is true for both of our programs, the only difference is whether or not it's hidden behind function calls you can't see and don't have access to. You don't really think that functional languages aren't appending things, using temp vars, and using conditional logic behind the scenes, do you? What do you think ".filter(node => !node.isHidden)" does? It's nothing but a for loop and a conditional by a…
But the whole point of higher-level languages is that you don't have to think about what's going on behind the scenes, and can focus on expressing intent while worrying less about implementation. Just because a HLL is eventually compiled into assembler, and so the assembler expresses everything the HLL did, doesn't mean the HLL and assembler are equally readable.
(And I think that your parent's point is that "awkward, unwieldy package" is a judgment call, rather than an objective evaluation, based, probably, on familiarity and experience—it certainly doesn't look awkward or unwiely to me, though I disagree with some of the other aesthetic judgments made by your parent.)