Isn't the reason why so many other languages have reflection due to the fact that they essentially have the information there from the get-go?
For example, C# and Java have their intermediate language that has a bunch of meta information attached to it already or the info can be added easily if need be. Is C++ not more raw in its compilation process from code to object files? I mean sure, I guess meta-data could be added to the object files themselves for runtime inspection, but if it were really that simple, why wouldn't they have just added it if reflection is indeed that much of a sore spot for the language's purpose?
Now, I'd like to add, my understanding of compiler internals is quite limited, so if I'm way off base here, please correct me.
Additionally, while I too find reflection useful, I've seen a lot of cases where it ends up being a bandaid for poor design and gives people an all too enticing shovel to dig themselves deeper into a hole of technical debt. When used correctly, reflection can be quite elegant, but I think those cases are seldom advantageous in comparison to a different and likely better design approach.