Don't bother, if you're in a position to do so, help them find a first-class brain surgeon. Get them into Sloan Kettering, Mayo, Duke or OHSU or whoever. Help them look for clinical trials to get chemo past the blood-brain barrier (I've heard some promising things in this area, though I'm not sure if it's being tested on humans yet). If they have a family that's taking care of them, offer to help them. Even just a gr…
Agreed. Maybe look into end of life LSD therapy ( https://www.webmd.com/palliative-care/features/facing-death-... ) and work on the bucket list. That should be priority #1. #2 can be to try a lot of "out there stuff", but don't forget to live.
Of course, everyone around wanted to contribute - this person was not well off, the credit card was not used for much.
It took some weeks later after they passed for me to realize that they knew it was a credit card bill they would never need to pay. In all likelihood others contributions simply blocked them from feeling that they were contributing.