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> I would bet the majority of react sites and devs that use them are [n]ot building apps that require SPA or something like React. [edited to restore what I assume is the ended meaning] On what basis do you bet this, though? Sure, you see sites that bug you by being slow in contexts where you'd choose something else, but most devs are working on sites and apps that you will never see , because you're not the target d…
But there is a wide gulf between backend + JQuery and SPA. The frustration often shown is people treating the extremes as the only options available. Having a use case for which backend + jQuery doesn't cut it doesn't require reinventing navigation state and history in JS, or loading every stat on the page via JSON. There are middle grounds.
There are a bunch of stacks that I prefer to work in for my own projects, but what I need at work is almost always the standard option that everyone is already used to.