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I heard a thought recently that went something along the lines of "if any outcome requires 'everyone to just X' then it is not a realistic outcome because everyone will not just X" I've started to apply this line of reasoning to things like this. "If everyone would just be nicer" sounds great, but we can't expect it to happen. It sounds defeatist but I think it can also be used to try and reframe things to find real…
The “everyone will not just X” issue is, I think, less of an obstacle when you don’t need the “everyone” part. If “Y% of people just did X, then things would be Y% • Z amount better” is a much better plan than “if everyone just did X, then the problem would be solved.” . Some proportion of people are likely to be convinced by an argument that they should do something because it would make things better if they did. Y…
"it would make things better if they did" is an incentive. As incentives go, it's a fairly weak one that doesn't tend to convince people
The problem with this sort of incentive in internet comment sections is that a lot of the nasty people don't tend to stick around long. They may just be doing a drive by nasty post. They may have even made a new burner account just to make one post.
If people are transient, then they will never see the outcome of "it would make things better", so they never reap any benefit from it
Anyways, my point was that argument is still trying to convince people of an incentive
Edit: I suppose what this is highlighting is that the "people will not just X" is really more "people will not just (spontaneously) X".
You need to give them reasons to X, if you want them to X.