Since you have a specific anecdote as an argument, could you expand on your “American approach” concept and how it applies to your situation?
I don’t mean talk in vague assertions about how you have read some other specific yet unrelated anecdotes about childbirth costing $125,000 or something. I mean how much would your son’s specific situation cost you in a comparable area of America for a family of comparable income?
The reason I ask is because the general approach should not be argued against with anecdotes. You commonly hear of wait time issues in universal healthcare countries. You commonly hear about cost of care issues in America. Generally speaking there is an obvious trade off.
And just like wait times and cost are preferences, your preference is equal care for children. In America that does not happen. That is part of the trade off.
I am not implying that all things are equal. I am unhappy with the health insurance cartels that drive up cost in America making the lower middle class suffer. I am unhappy with the inconsistent care availability from region to region across the country.
But I also resist the implication that American healthcare always bankrupts a person and that free / low cost care is a simple decision.