Jeff didn't phrase the question carefully enough. In English if you say, "I have two children, one is a girl" that CANNOT mean both are girls. If both were girls you would never say that. Saying you have 1 girl implies that you have 1 boy. Or maybe 1 girl and one hermaphrodite. 100% was the right answer. It's easy to get people to argue when you give them an almost-ambiguous word problem; they're not arguing about th…
I think this would be a better quote of what the person might have said:"Both of my kids are driving me crazy! Just yesterday I had to pick one of them up from the police station--I grounded her for a month!" Pulling out the information corresponding to gender and family size would give only the information given in Jeff's post.
When applying math to the real world, you have to pull out the important information and deal with just that information. But here you are doing the opposite--trying to find a real world situation that applies to the math problem. In my opinion, your example does not quite apply.
(I don't know how the probabilities change when you account for hermaphrodites, but if it changes significantly enough so that approximately 66% is a bad answer, I would find that very interesting!)