My aunt is (supposedly) in her 90s, having left the US for Ecuador 10 or so years ago. We've remained in regular contact via phone over the years. Recently we went more than a few months without speaking. She has/had two numbers; magic jack and google. When I tried to call her, the magic jack was no longer in service and google said something about "unavailable". I reached out to my cousin (my aunt's daughter) to inq…
It's possible if she doesn't know why you're asking the questions and requesting a specific photograph, her responses won't be helpful. For example, if you asked for a selfie, she might just think you want a picture of her, and she remembers that she has a picture of her that she took last year where she looked good (passport phot that people dress up for), and wants you to have a good photo rather than one where she…
I couldn't include our entire dialogue into an HN comment, but yes, upon prodding as deeply as I could and running out of ideas, I explained my suspicions. The response wasn't what I expected, but not direct evidence supporting my concers quite either.
If it was my aunt, she understands well. If not, the perpetrator does too.
One of a few other instances which got my attention was a voicemail she left, which I retain a recording of. It starts by saying her name, awkwardly, followed by a 5-8 second pause, then saying "Hi. This is . I always refer to her by her abbreviated single syllable name, while the voicemail used her formal, full name.
I haven't heard from her since saying that if anything went wrong, I'd be looking for fingerprints on the passport.