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How 30 days without social media changed my life

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Re: How 30 days without social media changed my life

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I understand the urge to keep away from facebook or twitter. However, Hacker News is very important resource for career and personal development IMHO. Since I came to know about Hacker News, my life has changed. Not only I stay away from social media such as facebook, twitter, but also I am away from news websites such as cnn and bbc.And, let me say, it is very good for mind and body to not consume so much news.

My sarcasm meter is faulty. Are you being sarcastic, or genuinely serious?

Re: How 30 days without social media changed my life

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Last week, I tried to make producing something instead of consuming something the first thing I did in the morning. Practically, this meant working on a bunch of blog posts that I've had queued up for ages, plus actually writing about those "a ha" moments you have at work. It was really great and I felt good all day.

I was inspired by a Reddit comment I stuck in my Evernote a long time ago, but unearthed somewhat randomly: http://www.reddit.com/r/Fitness/comments/pbjk1/what_are_the_...

Re: How 30 days without social media changed my life

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I stopped using Facebook last November. It's been a fantastic experience. Whether you realize it or not, FB changes your emotional health. FB used to make me oddly depressed. Its like sitting in front of the TV and feasting on Sour Patch Kids for two hours. I would sit there staring at how awesome people's lives were and wonder why I wasn't doing such awesome things myself. I heard about the passing of family members…

I don't understand this at all. FB (and social media in general) is the only thing I've found that enables me to organize going out for drinks with more than 2 people at once. Also the only thing that lets me post "Hey, anyone wanna go out for ice cream tomorrow evening?" and actually having 5 people come. Three of which are completely new outside twitter/facebook. It's really quite awesome. Hell, I have very scatter…

For some reason as I read this I thought of the thread from a few days ago, about how if you freelance, you shouldn't take on low-value, high-demand clients.

Maybe if your "friends" only get together or even talk to you in response to tweets or facebook, and forget all about you otherwise, you need to consider their real commitment to the friendship.

You know that friends did manage to organize cocktail parties at each other's houses, gather at restaurants, etc. before twitter or facebook existed.

Re: How 30 days without social media changed my life

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I stopped using Facebook last November. It's been a fantastic experience. Whether you realize it or not, FB changes your emotional health. FB used to make me oddly depressed. Its like sitting in front of the TV and feasting on Sour Patch Kids for two hours. I would sit there staring at how awesome people's lives were and wonder why I wasn't doing such awesome things myself. I heard about the passing of family members…

I ditched facebook about 2 years ago, for 14 months. I learned that I never made enough of an impression for any of my friends to inquire where I was. It was incredibly depressing because I exposed a lie to myself, that I had close friends. I guess it's been neat, knowing the truth, but it was an expensive trade to obtain it. I've been back on there for a few months again, and sadly, even knowing none of those people…

If your main interaction with a person is via facebook, they are not a close friend.

Re: How 30 days without social media changed my life

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I'm not sure which corporate internet filter application our building uses (I think Sophos?) or if they use their own custom rules or subscribe else where but, steve corona, your entire site is blocked to me as: Access to the web page you were trying to visit has been blocked in accordance with company policy. Please contact your system administrator if you believe this is in error. URL: stevecorona.com/how-30-days-w…

Maybe it's because of my running naked blog post, haha. That sucks though, I swear I'm not a porn site.

Re: How 30 days without social media changed my life

#57

Giving up social media for 30 days (well except for using Facebook 5 times). That doesn't really sound like giving up social media at all.

I go to facebook.com probably 5 times in less than 5 minutes. To me, that is giving up social media. I'm sure I'm not alone.

Re: How 30 days without social media changed my life

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I stopped using Facebook last November. It's been a fantastic experience. Whether you realize it or not, FB changes your emotional health. FB used to make me oddly depressed. Its like sitting in front of the TV and feasting on Sour Patch Kids for two hours. I would sit there staring at how awesome people's lives were and wonder why I wasn't doing such awesome things myself. I heard about the passing of family members…

I don't understand this at all. FB (and social media in general) is the only thing I've found that enables me to organize going out for drinks with more than 2 people at once. Also the only thing that lets me post "Hey, anyone wanna go out for ice cream tomorrow evening?" and actually having 5 people come. Three of which are completely new outside twitter/facebook. It's really quite awesome. Hell, I have very scatter…

I use email just fine for this...

Re: How 30 days without social media changed my life

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post #51

I understand the urge to keep away from facebook or twitter. However, Hacker News is very important resource for career and personal development IMHO. Since I came to know about Hacker News, my life has changed. Not only I stay away from social media such as facebook, twitter, but also I am away from news websites such as cnn and bbc.And, let me say, it is very good for mind and body to not consume so much news.

My sarcasm meter is faulty. Are you being sarcastic, or genuinely serious?

I'm confident he's serious, and I feel much the same way. I use cperciva's Hacker News Daily (http://www.daemonology.net/hn-daily/) to help avoid spending too much time at Hacker News and to make sure I don't miss any big stories.

Re: How 30 days without social media changed my life

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I stopped using Facebook last November. It's been a fantastic experience. Whether you realize it or not, FB changes your emotional health. FB used to make me oddly depressed. Its like sitting in front of the TV and feasting on Sour Patch Kids for two hours. I would sit there staring at how awesome people's lives were and wonder why I wasn't doing such awesome things myself. I heard about the passing of family members…

I think this whole "social networking" thing will start to fade soon, as people increasingly realize that it's not "cool" anymore, and that they don't really need it, other perhaps than checking their accounts twice a year. So this whole discussion about whether Google+ or other company can beat Facebook or not might be irrelevant, if the whole social networking "industry" collapses in the next 5 years.

I agree. This whole "Internet" thing is highly overrated. Also, "electricity" and "clean water."
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