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Re: Do people IRL know you have a blog?

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Re: Re: Do people IRL know you have a blog?

#11
Earlier in my career, every single person in my team had a website. At lunch we would talk about how we built it, servers, fail2ban, zipbomb, etc.

Many years later, one coworker has a website under construction, and others say they have nothing to say online. When i bring up a blog post I wrote years ago, relevant to a conversation, I feel like a charlatan trying to sell a product.

But hey, I'm happy to write in the dark. Especially after some of my posts have literally landed me on TV. I felt like everything I Wrote after was scrutinized. But the world has forgotten about me so I'm free again.

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#12
post #2

I have exactly one IRL friend that cares about my technology stuff, but he lives far away and we don't see each other in person too often. My ex tolerates me talking about it a little bit before he tells me to shut up, but that's it. It kind of sucks. I've just re-internalized to that nothing I do really matters, and therefore neither do I.

I assume nobody reads my blog, at most a couple people check out the pretty pictures but that's about it.

My opinion on blogging is do it for yourself, not to achieve something. That way it doesn't feel like wasted effort when nobody reads it and it can still be fun or cathartic to write.

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#13
post #6

Even many personal blogs these days are suspect, they’re building a brand. I like this guy is doing his own thing.

Can you tell me the difference between building a brand and this guy ?

I struggle to understand what this means, as I dont know what "building a brand" means when a person does it.

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#14
The thing about irl blogs is how, if it's tech related, then it kinda follows you. So there's a pressure to keep things corporate to not scare away job opportunities.

There's a reason why LinkedIn reads like garbage, and even if it's obvious, people neither point it out or stop.

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#15
I have a blog that has all my book reviews that I've written over the past ~17 years. It's got over 1000 reviews on it.

I post them all to Goodreads as well. Hardly anyone read them on my own blog.

It's convenient for me to have them all in one spot so I can export them and whatnot.

I've had one review that a successful blogger (now substacker) linked to and that probably resulted in more than half the hits the blog ever got coming in about two weeks.

Posting to Goodreads people seem to appreciate more. My reviews get some reaction a few times a week there.

A few people IRL know about my blog and reviews on Goodreads. I don't generally tell people about it but if people really read and it comes up I tell people.

I keep it largely separate from my Twitter account and Linked In profile.

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#17

Ah, Lars-Christian! No one wants to talk to you in real life about your blog because you're in Norway . If you lived here in the United States, you'd have a perpetual string of very interesting conversations about your personal website because Americans are all about technology and hearing how any of us peons are fighting the power, man. At least, I think that's what my wife's reaction is before she leaves the room t…

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post #6

Even many personal blogs these days are suspect, they’re building a brand. I like this guy is doing his own thing.

Can you tell me the difference between building a brand and this guy ? I struggle to understand what this means, as I dont know what "building a brand" means when a person does it.

A good enough personal brand means you have a name (generally) disconnected from your individual job and you are known as an entity in your own right, often not entirely pinned to a single discipline. The most cynical example here is probably Kylie Kardashian, ostensibly a billionaire entrepreneur, but you could just as easily sub in a lot of modern content creators like Mr. Beast.

These can come about naturally through some amount of fame, naturally through having a natural talent for something that generates interest in you and your opinions, or you can grind for it in a kind of numbers game.

If you are working towards getting your name "out there" and having some of that sense of recognition, if you're hustling for subscribers or follows, if you are following trends to post about in order to try to get more readers, you're behaving in brand-building exercises.

If you're just writing for the sake of writing, or to keep a journal for your future self, or just so your close friends can keep up with you, you're not.

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#19

The thing about irl blogs is how, if it's tech related, then it kinda follows you. So there's a pressure to keep things corporate to not scare away job opportunities. There's a reason why LinkedIn reads like garbage, and even if it's obvious, people neither point it out or stop.

Agreed. The minute I learned one of my directs was reading my small blog posting to it became much, much harder.

Re: Re: Do people IRL know you have a blog?

#20
Dude is right, no one except for the audience cares.

I was a successful blogger in the 00th years and with a side business around Made for Adsense because once you understood SEO it was inevitable, if this rings a bell.

Reading a blog seems magical. Just imagine “Do ppl IRL my print magazine?” to use another metaphor. Nope and yes. Same goes for artists, say singer and songwriters: “Do you listen to my stuff?” Why should they?

Understanding your readers and fans is not easy. Statistically speaking, if all your close friends read your blog, you either are on to something or you get lied to.

So if all around read your blog you might be some truly impressive author with a huge fan base - and 99,9999% won’t fit in here.

As a side note, I still know quite a fraction of successful YouTubers. They are publishers, content creators. It is work for them, maybe evolved from something they did for fun. These dudes always prioritize money now - because they know their niche a bit better now and want to appeal to it.

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