My first home (bought 2014) is up 100% and my second home (bought 2019) is up 55% over purchase price. It's unsustainable for this country to think that houses can be both (1) an appreciating investment and (2) affordable. But in order for us to find long-term price stability, people like me must make peace with the idea of our houses _never_ appreciating beyond inflation.
I would bet you would have had a better outcome renting and investing in the SP500 instead.