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As somebody who lives in a multi-million city, every second person I talk to wants to move to the country, and it definitely much stronger tendency after around 30-35+. It doesn't matter if the parent's assumptions are "quite a few" or don't match you, what matters is if they match a big segment of the population to be statistically useful. There are always outliers who love to grow old in a big city and have their a…
The only set we should really be listening to are people who both: - Lived in a big city - Lived in a rural community Otherwise, everyone always thinks the grass is greener, absent experience with the alternative. Or as I heard it quipped -- you don't love something for it's best bits; you love it because you can tolerate its worst bits.
I think a dial is preferable to either of the (urban, rural) choices.
I love dense, urban places and I also love quiet, secluded rural places.
In my mind, the ideal living situation allows one to quickly toggle between the two.
This is possible in the Bay Area and is the reason I moved here 15 years ago.