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Right, because raising kids isn't contributing to society.
That's exactly why child care workers who look after packs of 15 to 20 kids at a time should be highly valued and paid a decent wage. It's how villages worked in the past, most adults did non child related work much of the time, some adults and some older children kept an eye on what the pooled group of kids were up to .. watching, sometimes educating, sometimes leading them in "work" building things, cooking, huntin…
1) We move close to my or her family.
2) We get a lot more money.
I don't see anyway around it, we need family support or money to pay someone else to help.