The overwhelming loss in this calculation is from the antenna’s radiated energy spreading out over a larger and larger area (despite the directional “gain” factor). I’m wondering: would a probe launched today instead employ a laser to communicate? This would seem to offer many orders of magnitude improvement in the directionality of the signal.
Probably infeasible for several reasons (only useful when accelerating DIRECTLY away from Earth, incoming light to power spaceship is probably coming from the sun and therefore likely also in the directly of Earth, so net zero acceleration at best from firing the photons back towards the sun), but it'd be pretty neat.