Neat idea! You might be able to deduplicate the list by converting the decisions to embeddings and running k-means clustering.
Show HN: I built a directory about big life decisions/regrets
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#32Interesting! You should consider making the email field optional: it’s unclear why it’s required, and maybe folks will be more comfortable sharing if it is optional.
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#33You need the inverse of all of the decisions: "I decided NOT to invest in the stock market", etc.
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#34Forgot the PhD!
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#35I think regrets are somewhat of a pointless exercise (that is, there are exceptions, but much fewer than seems to be the assumption) One takes a decision considering: 1. the best information available, 2. the sum total of your fears and complexes. 3. sometimes picking a choice without a clear cut set of criteria to make an informed decision. Years later, what's the point regretting it? It means that you are now perha…
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#36I see some dupes in the list like “change my career.”
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#37I think regrets are somewhat of a pointless exercise (that is, there are exceptions, but much fewer than seems to be the assumption) One takes a decision considering: 1. the best information available, 2. the sum total of your fears and complexes. 3. sometimes picking a choice without a clear cut set of criteria to make an informed decision. Years later, what's the point regretting it? It means that you are now perha…
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#38I'd add inverse options. E.g. I decided to not buy a house and now I'm regretting it. The reason is rent was cheap in my area. Now it's ~3x the past bank interest. I was creditworthy at all times but chose to avoid unnecessary expenses, lol.
I don’t regret buying a house but I assumed I would. The great house price crash was waiting for me to buy, so I thought… still it is a shallow win to see others suffering with rent prices.
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#39Re: Show HN: I built a directory about big life decisions/regrets
#40I'd add inverse options. E.g. I decided to not buy a house and now I'm regretting it. The reason is rent was cheap in my area. Now it's ~3x the past bank interest. I was creditworthy at all times but chose to avoid unnecessary expenses, lol.