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I never understood buying things that I can't afford. I always thought you earn money and when you earn enough money to buy something you can buy that something. That is always how I have lived life. For that reason I also find it ridiculous that it's the social norm to take debt to buy a roof to put over your head. A (simple, clean, functional) house is a basic need, not a luxury item. I always assumed that if I don…
I agree that house prices should come down. But given that you need a home, what's the difference between $1000 in rent+fees and $1000 in mortgage+taxes+fees? Normally the biggest difference between renting and buying with debt is that you can stop renting. But you're not going to stop having a home.
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Owning a house does not mean not owing anyone a cent. You still owe multiple types of taxes to the government. You still need to get insurance. You still need to make repairs. I actually find piece of mind in renting. I can always say screw it and move to the cheapest part of the country as I am getting closer to retirement age.
You can buy better neighbors with a house, and less crime.
I wish!
I built a fancy house in a fancy neighborhood, and then a real a-hole bought the house next to me as his retirement home.
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#263I have a paid off house and zero debt. Sure I might be ahead if I had used some of the cash to buy stocks instead of paying down the house early, but I’m completely happy with my decision. There is no peace of mind like not owing anyone a cent and keeping your living expenses low. Having debt was incredibly stressful and no longer worrying about making payments is the best thing that’s ever happened to my mental heal…
I can't liquidate my house piecemeal when I need money like I can my brokerage assets.
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#264In practice there are countless important complications that make a naive option theoretic analysis very incomplete, e.g., getting into debt makes a lot of sense if you can count on a bailout if things go pear shaped.
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I agree that house prices should come down. But given that you need a home, what's the difference between $1000 in rent+fees and $1000 in mortgage+taxes+fees? Normally the biggest difference between renting and buying with debt is that you can stop renting. But you're not going to stop having a home.
my landlord friend told me, many of her tenants earn decent salary, definitely more than her income, they can even spend $8000 or more to remodel a car or things like that, but can never save up to the 20% down payment ever.
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The moral issue I have is that simply put, if I don't have the money for something, I wasn't meant to have that something. I need to earn the money for it, after which I deserve to have that something. However, the most basic clean-and-functional versions of basic necessities (food, water, shelter, and transportation) should be accessible to everyone working a full-time job, in my opinion, without having to spend oth…
> The moral issue I have is that simply put, if I don't have the money for something, I wasn't meant to have that something. I need to earn the money for it, after which I deserve to have that something. There's a difference between having money and earning money. If you find $20, are you therefore $20 more deserving? If you are mugged and the thief gets $100, does that make you $100 less deserving? There are plenty…
I agree that "meant to have" and "deserve" are the wrong concepts here. But reality and practicality are what they are.
If I work hard and save my earnings, with the intention to buy something which we agree is a "valid" need/want (whatever that something is), and then lose the money through some circumstance that we we agree is "not my fault", that really sucks and I don't claim that it affects how much I "deserve" the thing (whatever deserve means), but the reality is that I now don't have the money to buy that thing. Am I going to now borrow money because "I worked hard and I deserve it"? Some would, others wouldn't.
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#269Today, I started picking up what I started some time back -- the book “Debt: The First 5,000 Years” by David Graeber goes deep into the details of Debt. I've heard good reviews and I hope this is a good book as they say. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Debt:_The_First_5000_Years
> the book “Debt: The First 5,000 Years” by David Graeber Also would recommend Money: The True Story of a Made-Up Thing : > Money only works because we all agree to believe in it. In Money, Jacob Goldstein shows how money is a useful fiction that has shaped societies for thousands of years, from the rise of coins in ancient Greece to the first stock market in Amsterdam to the emergence of shadow banking in the 21st c…
Respectfully, this is the type of true-that-sounds-deep statements that are absolutely shallow and pointless. Yes money the "paper" is not worth anything, but the same could be said of anything in an organized society. Ownership means nothing, it's just a title backed by the government which has a monopoly on violence. Ethics means nothing, it's just something we culturally decided was desirable because if you feel a-ok with murder any trip anywhere would turn into a blood bath.
At this point it should be a named fallacy (maybe it is), if we are discussing the merits of debt as a tool, saying "money isn't worth anything" as if it means something is not some ground breaking statement.