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> got married, had kids, bought a house I lived in the US on a temporary visa and it's wild to me that people would put down roots in any country without a clear path to permanent residency. When you read the conditions attached to your employer-sponsored non-immigrant visa it makes it pretty clear that you're not in the country to settle permanently, you're there to work for the duration of your visa and that's all.…
A good friend of mine is Indian and also gay. Moving back to India and having a happy life with equal rights isn't on the table.
There are lots of countries in the world that welcome gay people and have simpler, saner, and more predictable pathways to permanent residency than the USA.