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A place I've never been to. A place I'll never go

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Re: A place I've never been to. A place I'll never go

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I can empathize with the author after moving away from Toronto almost 20 years ago, so much from when I was a teenager is gone. I'm not "from" where I live now, and where I'm "from" no longer exists, I just feel perpetually detached from everywhere now.

One of the reasons I like to watch "Colombo" is that it was essentially filmed in Los Angeles and around Southern California.

It's an ad hoc capture of the southland in the early 70s. I like to reference IMDB to try to see if the landmarks in the show still exist. Some do, some don't. The criminals used to live in some very nice houses up in Bel Air.

A recent example had Colombo at a winery. Well, the Pomona and Cucamonga Valley is where many of the wineries were back in the day. But, that's been transitioning away from that area for some time. The Ontario Airport exists where that winery was in the show.

But there's still vestiges of all that in the area, and the area is still in rapid change. What used to be dairy farms are all turning into warehouses or new residences. Yet, there's still that same old local convenience store on the corner in its 70+ year old building just down the street.

It's a very interesting place to just watch the change happen around you.

Re: A place I've never been to. A place I'll never go

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post #3

Why almost every store have their names written in Chinese (?) and English. Is the post a joke with photos from Asia malls (or AI generated)? Or it’s just common in that part of Canada?

I'm curious where you live that this seems so unusual.

I'm in the USA, and any area with a large immigrant population will have a shopping mall or at least a few stores where signage is in English & the language of the local immigrant population.

Re: A place I've never been to. A place I'll never go

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I have a similar feeling when I bring friends to places I spent lots of time, but which have now been completely transformed by redevelopment. I can walk through and visualize my old surroundings as if they were still there, but I just can't convey them to others who are visiting to the first time. The best I can do is show old google maps photos.

> I have a similar feeling when I bring friends to places I spent lots of time, but which have now been completely transformed by redevelopment

Our family's 1800s home was one of five, on 2 forking dirt roads that meandered thru the woods. From our front porch, we could see across the creek, out to where the prison grew alfalfa and corn.

Our dirt road+creek met the paved road; that was the school bus stop. Across the pavement and past a 40ac cow field was a domed radar installation. It served a nearby Nike missile base. The prison guard towers, maximum security and it's railroad were a half mile to the side.

The missile base left in 75. The train ended in 77 w/ stock sold by 80. My brother evicted us in 87 - and for good measure razed the house and every tree. I married and left the area in 90. The sprawling prison complex sold to developers in 2000s.

I visited my birth home (site) in 2019. I needed a map to find it. The paved road I knew had been ripped up and replaced with a different road going different places.

The cow field where I waited for my bus was a forest. In it's way, this was the most disorienting part of the visit.

The dirt road forking off of ours led to a sportsball park. It continued on a bit and was bisected by an 8 lane cross-county highway.

My dirt road was paved and ended at a cul-de-sac of townhouses where my neighbors had been. Our lot was occupied by the commercial nursery that my brother had built and later sold. Our ramshackle garage still stood for some reason. The fields across our creek were more townhomes.

I have historical photos of our home and nearby. However, I regret that we never took pictures of the 2 miles around our home - the land we walked and drove 1000s of times.

It certainly never occurred to any of us that the roads themselves would disappear.

Re: A place I've never been to. A place I'll never go

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

I live in Texas, and have lived in California and New York. In all three of these places the areas with a large Chinese presence will have stores with names in both Chinese and English. This is absolutely common in the US in pretty much any large city, I can't imagine someone having never seen this before in the US unless they never lived or went to an area that was diverse. And its not just Chinese, many places will…

I see it in Chinese restaurants, sure. And in Chinatowns. (And with Spanish in the southwest.) I don't see it on "almost every store" "everywhere in the US", though.

I think you're simply taking "everywhere in the US" too literally then if your interpretation of that was "almost every store".

Re: A place I've never been to. A place I'll never go

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post #3

Why almost every store have their names written in Chinese (?) and English. Is the post a joke with photos from Asia malls (or AI generated)? Or it’s just common in that part of Canada?

There's many pockets in Toronto with high density of Chinese commerce, the area around Steeles east of the IBM campus is one. Pacific Mall mentioned in the article is only one of the commercial centers in the area. There's also Metro Square a few blocks west, the T&T plaza next door, Skycity on Midland/Finch, and various other small plazas around the area, full of Chinese food goodness.

Re: A place I've never been to. A place I'll never go

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   > The good thing is that, after 5 years of 
   > construction, a beautiful new mall stan… just kidding!
   >
   > This is Canada. The place where construction
   > has to stop because you’re not allowed to uproot
   > a tree on your own property. Or a vindictive neighbour
   > holds up your project in Committee of Adjustments, until
   > you build them a new deck as a bribe. Or construction
   > is blocked by a surprise Heritage Listing on your
   > building. I could keep going!
Little throwaways like this are brushstrokes in a much bigger picture.

Re: A place I've never been to. A place I'll never go

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I can empathize with the author after moving away from Toronto almost 20 years ago, so much from when I was a teenager is gone. I'm not "from" where I live now, and where I'm "from" no longer exists, I just feel perpetually detached from everywhere now.

You can’t go home again.

Grosse Pointe Blank reference? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=50G3ScEKP6Y

Ironically his former home got turned to a, well not a mall, but a convenience store.

Re: A place I've never been to. A place I'll never go

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I bought many things at this offshoot of p-mall. It was there long before Pacific Mall, but gradually became its undersized sibling. There was a kitchen supply store there that had great stuff at good prices. I still have many of those purchases and use them often.

It had the advantage of being a lot quieter than Pacific Mall, although parking was equally impossible. I'd usually walk through P-mall for fun, and then use this place to actually shop.

Re: A place I've never been to. A place I'll never go

#29

I can empathize with the author after moving away from Toronto almost 20 years ago, so much from when I was a teenager is gone. I'm not "from" where I live now, and where I'm "from" no longer exists, I just feel perpetually detached from everywhere now.

Apparently people who grew up in East Germany have this but worse. Their "home culture" (TV shows, snacks made by the state snack factories) got "demolished" when East Germany got absorbed into Germany...

Re: A place I've never been to. A place I'll never go

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I can empathize with the author after moving away from Toronto almost 20 years ago, so much from when I was a teenager is gone. I'm not "from" where I live now, and where I'm "from" no longer exists, I just feel perpetually detached from everywhere now.

I've tried explaining this feeling to people so many times. Unmoored is a good word.

We now live in a place where the locals are warm and welcoming, but I'll never be one of them. My kids are, but I'm just a little different. When I go back to where I was raised, I'm no longer a local there either, just a little bit different. It's more than the place itself changing. It's as if there is some continuity that's been broken somewhere.

It's not bad, just odd. I can't quite put my finger on it.

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