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> I get paid more than my non tech peers yet still functionally have less spending power than a 25 year old from 30 years ago This seems like some non-generic case specific to your situation and not representative of the average experience. The median income in 1994 for over-25-year-olds (men only!) was $25,465 [0], women was less than half of that. Let's go with the figure for men for the sake of discussion. $25,465…
Where does the farming come in for Akron - because everything had rubber tires?
San Jose was a farming town until the 1980s.
Most of SJ's neighborhoods (eg. Alviso, Lick, etc) were actually small farm towns that merged into the City of San Jose in the 70s.
That's why SJ feels kind of bland - it's a very new city, sort of like Phoenix, Dallas, and much of Los Angeles.