I agree that the maintainer doesn’t really owe anything to anyone. Including the so-called consumers on the issue tracker. Furthermore the consumers have no real power over the maintainer; since they aren’t doing anything for them they in turn have nothing to withhold from the maintainer. And they can’t bother the maintainer unless they decide to turn truly vile and evil by doxing and harassing the maintainer. Thus the complaints of these consumers can be completely tuned out.
It follows then that the maintainer can just log off. Because either you believe that the maintainer has some minimal obligation to the community (like a quarterly update about maintainership status or making a notice in the readme if you decide to abandon the project) or you don’t.
But sometimes in these discussions things get muddied because people claim that
1. The maintainer doesn’t owe anything to anyone whatever
2. But she’s a nice gal which means that she will triage some bugs and fix some bugs and explain to a few of the issue reporters that they haven’t encountered a bug they just haven’t installed the program so that PowerShell can find it and
What’s the groans moral angle, here? We’ve already established (1). But what ought the maintainer do for herself? That’s also a moral problem. Are you willing to say that the maintainer ought to log off if they are experiencing burnout? (Again: this is about the moral obligations that the maintainer has to herself only.) Or does that trample on her rights?
And if you are unwilling to say that the maintainer ought to log off, what does that make the maintainer? Are you going to claim that they have (a) started an altruistic hobby by themselves (b) got too caught up in it and (c) are now a victim of circumstance/outside forces because they have no moral obligation to log off? Considering how much power the maintainer has (and how the consumers have none), how is the maintainer a victim of circumstance when the whole enterprise was created by them and can be terminated at will by them?