I think some parents and kids have realised that much of that slog is ever less about the education and more about using children as tools for buffing the school or district stats in the best case or it's just riot control in the worst case. Miss a day or two of school and now you're "behind" because you don't know some trivia¹ that's on your next standardised test. Mostly irrelevant to the student, but highly worryi…
You are missing forest for the trees - states dont want to raise a generation of alpha males with big ego and unsatiable drive to success. Thats not what the core of any population is, and hence not much catered for, not in public state funded institution. Now another topic is whats good for any individual kid and society long term, those can be quite different matters. I see those points in same way you do, but cons…
It's unfortunate because regardless of what you think, the so-called 'alpha males' with an insatiable drive for success are the ones representing the vast majority of the tax revenue.