Ask HN: How common is developer burnout? Have you ever been burnt out?
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#42Onboarding these people every quarter knowing they will likely get shit canned the next quarter was a tiring position. The level of incompetency of some of these people was similar to doing support type work for boomers (ie, instead of "did you turn your computer off and on" type deal. It's literally having to point these people to existing documentation and having to read it out to them like they are in elementary school. Basic reading comprehension is not a skill these people are required to have apparently).
I also remember a consulting firm trying to migrate system to some proprietary shite. Asking basic questions about the system, I always get the "we will get back to you on that" and never get it. Follow up, is basically hand waving magic, throw some generic bullshit buzz words ("ItS iN tHe ClOuD, mIcRoSeRvicEd OrIeNteD, DiStRibUtEd"). I remember management eating that shit up.
When push comes to shove, I finally black box test the system and its fails on even the most basic performance tests. Too many scam artists in this industry tbh, and too many incompetent idiots that somehow got into the C-level suite. I think in the end they were able to get the vendor to throw in an extra product or reduce cost to close the deal. Fortunately, I left that shit hole before it was implemented.
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#43> This makes me wonder if finding a low-key, sane culture is the key to sustainability in the industry, and avoiding burn out. Finding a culture where you feel that you are being treated as a human being and feel properly rewarded for what you do seems to be the key to avoid burnout long term. I think it's in the nature of SWE that there is a substantial pressure on everyone to treat themselves (and unconsciously the…
For me, this is what made me dislike my (unstressful) FAANG. I could do the job well but when there are 2,000 other engineers fighting for "limited" opportunities for promotions and I'm told a few times that "it's not my turn yet", I'm outta there, goodbye.
Re: Ask HN: How common is developer burnout? Have you ever been burnt out?
#44By the time most of us were turning 30, about half my cohort of friends and colleagues had given up as developers. By the time I turned 35 almost everyone had. Out of about 30-40 people that I have been somewhat associating with during my career, I can only think of about 5 right now that are still in tech. Four of those five are in management roles. Only one of those people is still a "true developer" (pushing code and commits all day). The rest have moved to infrastructure, security, and related fields.
The ones that left. A surprising number moved to rural areas to slow down their lives. Building homesteads (small personal farms). One actually built a large-scale mushroom farm (culinary/legal mushrooms). A few teach. Quite a few retired early doing the FIRE thing (wish I had been disciplined enough for that). Several are expats. So for the most part, most of them went off to do things that were less chaotic and less stressful.
I almost quit myself in my early 30s. But I was fortunate enough to get promoted into a senior management position, where I am mostly focused on tech strategy and not true "developer work" anymore. I also went back to school and joined a PhD program where I started doing research on encryption and security in something that truly interests me. So that kept me sane. At this point, I am "resting and vesting" at my current job, waiting for them to sell, which they are extremely well suited to do right now. As soon as that happens, I doubt I will find another job in tech. I plan on taking my PhD and staying in academia.
This is anecdotal experience. So your mileage may vary. The pandemic hit as most of us were between 30 and 35, which might have had a disproportionate affect of taking people out of the industry too. So my experience might be more extreme than the average. But basically, I have decided that the reason tech is mostly young people is because it breaks you down as you get older and people just leave. So burnout is a VERY real thing in this industry.
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#45I went from a FAANG to a twenty-ish person local business. I found out that what matters to me is not money or status. It’s a short commute, work that ends at the same time every day, liking my coworkers, and working directly with the people I help. Some mix of these might be right for you, assuming the bills are covered. My job has less (no) global impact. What I did previously affected far more people. I told peopl…
As I mentioned in my own comment, the root cause of burnout - be it coding or otherwise, is when expectations don't match reality.
For most people, especially the young, they attach their expectations to the job and work they do. There are also a certain number of people who have other expectations though - like how they can contribute to charity or the well-being of their own family from the money they make, from a job they don't necessarily like or even care about. One example is the popular Bain/McKinsey partner who is happy to sell absolute vaporware that will never be delivered ever, because they don't care whether their customers are happy - their own expectations are how bigger of a yatch or mansion they can upgrade to next year.
It all boils down to what the expectations are and whether they match reality.
Re: Ask HN: How common is developer burnout? Have you ever been burnt out?
#46Re: Ask HN: How common is developer burnout? Have you ever been burnt out?
#47It's very common. If you search hn.algolia.com you'll turn up lots of articles and discussions, but this one [0] is the one that has stuck with me. Particularly that top comment by markdjacobsen: > One of my later insights was that burnout doesn't merely entail working too much (although that's certainly part of it); burnout often involves pouring too much of your heart and soul into something that does not love you…
One part of me agrees. The other part says: But if I wouldn't have fallen in love with what I was doing to begin with, I would never have reached the point of ability that I did reach.
Maybe the only solution to this is to take a break, then try to learn to open your heart again and risk being disappointed once more. Maybe this time, you will be able to recognize it before it's "too late". I don't know.
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#48What burns me out is the bureaucracy, politics and having to deal with people who simply aren’t curious or interested about anything in the slightest leading the charge.
I’ve been working on a startup on the side with my friend for almost a year now and the work has rarely ever burnt me out.
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#49Key to burnout to me, in my opinion, is follow your gut. My first job out of training was in primary care at one of the many clinics of a local health corp (advertised as a local small town nonprofit hospital) but CEO ran it like a for-profit, going so far that he stated in one meeting that he plans to run the hospital and primary clinics like “Chick-fil-A”. Healthcare isn’t a combo meal and has to be tailored to the individual. That solidified my plans to leave once my contract and noncompete was up. They kept increasing my patient numbers despite me telling them I want to do more quality work and not quantity like others in the surrounding clinics. Those complaints landed on deaf ears. I left after feeling burnout for 2 years. I was stuck legally/contractually. Worst acid reflux I ever had that led to ulcers in the end. I entered this field to help people and not see patients as dollar signs. After I left, I was told by the CEO and his Admin buddies that I wasn’t worthwhile to hold on to because I didn’t see 25-30 patients a day. I was a “loss leader in primary care”. My goals since grad school were to provide quality work and spending my time with said patients when they needed it most. Their goals were pure volume and more money and not so much in the actual health care.
I jumped from job to job 3 times until I found my place with a company that semi/mostly-aligns with most of my goals. I’m in hospital medicine now with a side gig of concierge medicine. It’s not perfect but my mental health is exponentially better since I moved on. No amount of money or possibility of accumulating generational wealth is worth it in my opinion like some of the comments about being in a FAANG job. Being able to live a comfortable lifestyle and have time for my wife and two kids is what I care about most and with my current job I’m able to do quality work and still have an amazing amount of time with my family compared to the previous jobs.
Sorry this is a bit of a rant. TLDR We all burn out at some point. Up to you to take care of yourself and find you niche so you live happy and comfortably. No perfect job out there but keep searching until you find one that doesn’t cause you stomach ulcers and aligns with what your goals are as a dev. Life is truly short.
Re: Ask HN: How common is developer burnout? Have you ever been burnt out?
#50It's very common. If you search hn.algolia.com you'll turn up lots of articles and discussions, but this one [0] is the one that has stuck with me. Particularly that top comment by markdjacobsen: > One of my later insights was that burnout doesn't merely entail working too much (although that's certainly part of it); burnout often involves pouring too much of your heart and soul into something that does not love you…
> but don't fall in love with a project or a company, because there lies burnout. One part of me agrees. The other part says: But if I wouldn't have fallen in love with what I was doing to begin with, I would never have reached the point of ability that I did reach. Maybe the only solution to this is to take a break, then try to learn to open your heart again and risk being disappointed once more. Maybe this time, yo…
I think you're conflating skill and ability with impact and expectations.
Early on in your life, your expectations could have been to gain tremendous skill and grow your abilities. You probably didn't care that much if your work went into the trash because in the process, you learned some extremely important and valuable skills. That journey itself made it all worth it and met your expectations.
Over time, as you become more skillful and able, your expectations could change to seeing your work having real impact on the world instead.
This is perhaps, to you, now there's marginal return on being even more skillful and able. You ask "what's the end goal and did I reach it?"
> risk being disappointed once more. Maybe this time, you will be able to recognize it before it's "too late". I don't know
I mentioned in my own comment, the root cause of burnout - be it coding or otherwise, is when expectations don't match reality.
If you're a developer, your impact and outcome is beholden to management, so even through you might not realize it, part of your jobsearch now has to focus on ensuring you detect great management - and you make it a part of your interview to locate them.
The real solution to not being burned out: work with a team that actually knows what they are doing and have strong fundamentals.