I don't understand where this ORM 'divide' is coming from. ORMs are powerful, because they let you say less and do more. For 90% of the queries out there, an ORM is fine. SQL is powerful, because you can control and fine-tune your statements. For the remaining 10%, use SQL. Are ORMs bad? No. Can you them for everything? No. The same thing can be said for almost every technology in existence.
I see ORM vs relational style as a development mindset issue. We have moved using SQLAlchemy Core (not the ORM part) and the difference in development style is stunning: now it's quite easy and more importantly FUN to write performant queries, whereas when we were using Django ORM, it was very easy to write non-performant code and tedious to make it fast.