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I remember a comment from this site. Something like: we must study how Amazon and other big cloud's marketing work so great to make this generation developers think that vps or selfhosting are hard. IMO vps was easy before and even easier now to manage.
Please explain how you rotate ssh keys, store audit logs, backup (and test backup procedures), configure secure network between vpses such that your neighbor cannot eavesdrop.
2. Often there would be a cPanel plugin/extension/app/config value (if the hoster enabled it for you) that would just do for you what you needed.