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> The daycare center aesthetic and all this weird pronoun crap achieves the same ends. If everyone around you is an androgynous alien speaking a novel language and communications mishaps will get you fired, you won't feel comfortable working there. I'd argue that if you can remember people's names, you can remember their preferred pronouns - and that if you can't, or refuse to because you think it's "weird crap", the…
To be fair, even remembering the names is really difficult, especially working in a large org, many people I see only once or twice or have just heard about. With pronouns most of the time I can luckily just resort to "them" if I am unsure. I frequently in a meeting am unsure if I have or when I have met the person before, although I do find their face familiar. That is the first level of awkwardness to solve for me.…
I'll humor transpeople since they offer some visual cue in either direction but enbies are deliberately obtuse and go ballistic when you get it wrong. I have more issue playing ball with them since this cycle amounts to coercive obedience training.