Earlier quoted context omitted.
I once did a free gig for a neighbouring business, that was a lesson for me and not one I intend to repeat.
What happened?
For example, several meetings in the local coffee shop where subjects covered could be done within an email. They once arranged a meet with their database guy so we could discuss how it would be stored and accessed etc? Both looked at each other as if to say wtf are we doing here?
The lesson for me is that if you don't value your time then no one else will.