As a Scandinavian I find this an odd take on the situation. To me it seems like the US has a very, very, broken healthcare system that you’ve chosen to have by electing politicians who aren’t going to reform it into something reasonable.
My wife and I presently had twins, and we spent 7 days living in the hospital with a lot of help from nurses and so on, and it cost us $130. Which was me paying for 3 days of living there because the 3 days was the max you had to pay. Sure I pay 39% in taxes on the first $120k of my yearly income and then around 55% on anything above this (well except for a bunch of sort of loop holes to invest before taxes), but it’s basically still pretty nice to have that sort of healthcare system.
I’m bipolar type 2 and I have ADHS. Now in case you don’t know, this involved a lot of trial and error with a psychiatrist to find the best medication for me. During this I learned that many prescription medications which are “normal” in the US are illegal or at least only used in extremely severe cases here in Denmark, because of how dangerous the side effects are. This is due to heavy government regulation, because we don’t elect politicians the way you do. We don’t have a winners takes all system which tends to lead to conservative governments which are heavily influenced by the private sector. Hell, you can even see it in our own local “opioid crisis” which was caused by deregulation by right leaning government (though to be fair, Danish conservatives would probably be considered communists by US standards).
As I understand it, you Americans have the ability to both influence national and stateside policies. So that if your national government fails you, then you can still regulate your local laws. Which probably should have meant voting for politicians who would regulate your healthcare system in your states and ban medicine that is clearly a threat to public health. That you chose to not do this, and then blame your costal elites is just baffling to me.
But maybe I just don’t understand your country well enough?