I regret selling my startup

Maths: - 7MM post tax (let’s say) - Less 2MM for 2 houses (rates being what they are you’ll likely not mortgage both properties, or even one; if you do your monthly burn is so much higher it comes out in the wash). - 4% because you read about FIRE - 200k pre-tax (you tax burden should be low, maybe 15%) - 170k post tax for your family. If you live anywhere higher than average COL you might find yourself feeling a bit like a large reptile at times.

The saying ‘concrete jungle’ is so far off the mark. There’s no similarity between a city and a real jungle.

Once you’ve been out for a while, cities are clearly concrete zoos.

I never said migrants, I was talking about what happens if a million city dwellers take your advice and decide to move to the country. It'd be an environmental nightmare!

> compared to sitting in bumper-to-bumper traffic to and from work

Again, I rarely have bumper to bumper traffic, when I do, it is for a handful of minutes.

> You'd be surprised how little you miss the overwhelming number of choices and conveniences you have in the city.

In a given week, all less than a 15 minute drive:

Gym class with my son Swimming classes with my son BJJ classes Weekly library visit Weekly shopping trips with my son

Weekend choices are the Zoo (15 minutes away) Aquarium (an entire 20 minutes away!), or parks (plenty to choose from in walking distance). Heck there is now an indoor ice skating rink (less than 20 minutes away).

All of these are things I do every week. (Except for ice skating, I'd fall on my arse).

Of course there is plenty more. Just because I'm in a city doesn't mean I'm stuck in the city, in under a 2 hours drive I can reach the following:

1. Multiple ski resorts 2. An almost uncountable number of incredible camp sites 3. Countless small ocean side towns 4. Multiple amazing mountain day hikes

A bit further away there is an actual honest to goodness rain forest (3.5hrs) or I can go play on an active volcano (3.5hrs)

Lake Washington is just a handful miles away, everything from renting a boat for the day to seasonal hydroplane races to lake side picnics.

If I'm bored, I can go down to a local comedy club, hit up a poetry reading, multiple books clubs, or just go see a live concert. Seattle of course also has a huge sports scene, not my style, but between Football, Soccer, Baseball, and Ice Hockey, people who do like sports are pretty well entertained.

I was not expecting any of this when I moved to the city. I did not realize how pleasant live is here. I'm not living in Manhattan or London. The city isn't smog covered. If you ever fly into Seattle you can look out the airplane window and see how green everything is.

> Cities are utterly bereft of soul, spirit, meaning, purpose, culture, etc.

I mean, grunge, punk, and even multiple sub-genres of EDM, all sprung from cities. If you want to be incredibly elitist, plenty of classical music (and art, and paintings!) came from urban areas as well.

Saying cities don't have purpose or spirit is silly. I've travelled to multiple world cities, and each one has a completely different spirit. You may not like the spirit of a given city, and that is OK, but saying they don't have spirit isn't being honest. Given the site we are on, we can likely agree that the spirit of the Bay Area is technology at any cost, hustling and selling your ideas and trying to go big or die trying. Someone can say that spirit sucks, but no one can deny that it exists!

> commission an agendered hippie to plonk some monstrous perverted multicolour sculpture there for millions of dollars and boast about it like this isn't an insult to everything pure, and decent, and good in this world.

So ignore the civic stuff? The problem with public art pieces is that they have to not offend anyone, so after every interest group in the world has filed their objections, the artwork often ends up being super boring.

Meanwhile, plenty of cities have entire blocks set aside for street artists to make incredible murals. Local artists have open workshop days where you can come in and talk to them about what they are making. Guerrilla art exists. One time some friends and I stumbled across a tiny gallery hidden in an unlabeled building that was open at 10pm! Just, walking around, boom, art gallery.

> while I dread going into the big smoke and get the hell out as soon as I'm done doing what I need to do.

If you are going to the downtown part of a city, yeah, it is stressful and it sucks. Likewise, if I go into a rural area and head to a rendering plant, or a tire factory, that also sucks, but it wouldn't be fair for me to highlight the worst part of rural living with the best part of rural living!

Meanwhile one of my most memorable experiences in London was just walking around and just randomly stumbling onto Columbia Flower Road ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Columbia_Road_Flower_Market).

Or the time I was staying in a NYC AirBnB and I woke up one morning to a food festival outside my door.

The amazing and talented buskers in Mexico City.

The great street food that is available almost everyplace except in American cities (ugh).

And to be with all of this, I'm not saying rural living has no advantages. As a child I used to spend every summer down with family by the Russian River in California, and even to this day I have friends in rural places that I go to visit, dropping in for a day or sometimes a week.

I totally understand what the nice parts of that are, but I didn't understand the nice parts of city living until I moved from suburbia into a city.