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The teen mental illness epidemic is international (2023)

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Re: The teen mental illness epidemic is international (2023)

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post #181

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> Spending all your time online gives you a skewed perception of the world I'd say it gives you an accurate depiction, exposing the shit in the world around us. Whereas people not online so much are happy because ignorance is bliss.

No, exposing the shit and concentrating on it is not accurate. Building your world view on the part of the world you can personally observe, which has some good and mostly boring normal aspects, is not ignorance. I'd argue that for most people it's in fact more accurate.

When you're not online you don't see how the world truly operates, it's obfuscated from you. Ignoring that is literally ignorance.

Re: The teen mental illness epidemic is international (2023)

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> “The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers.” ~ Socrates Seems lik…

Is your conclusion, therefore, that every negative observation about a younger generation is false?

Late reply, but no. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence and basically every single instance of "the next generation is awful because X" has proven to be bullshit for the last 2,500+ years. I don't know how many times we'll have to go through rock & roll panic to reefer madness panic to satanic panic to video games cause violence panic it'll take to make so called "hackers" the least bit skeptical to shit that we learned was bullshit as children. Somehow, some people forget everything that enabled them to be the people they are and want to force their children down a narrow path that they choose. But it's not enough that they choose, they have to dictate what other parents can choose because it's too difficult to say no to little Timmy if his friend's parent's have said yes.

Re: The teen mental illness epidemic is international (2023)

#923
post #918

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When a group of people sets up a speaker and another group prevents speaker from making his speech... That is preventing from speaking. Allowing to fire people because of their political views is a very fine line. Especially if they cleanly separate political and professional lives. Few years ago we had an ex-politician fired from stocking shelves in a supermarket. Arguably dude did have some contraversial opinions i…

> another group prevents speaker from making his speech... That is preventing from speaking. How are they preventing it? Physically holding the doors closed? > Allowing to fire people because of their political views is a very fine line. You can hold whatever political views you want. But people want only the positive results of broadcasting their political views and none of the negative. One might want to change the…

> How are they preventing it? Physically holding the doors closed?

Looks like that does happen. No? Or just pushing university administrations to cancel speakers they just approved.

> But people want only the positive results of broadcasting their political views and none of the negative. But then why should that person be completely sheltered from any negative consequences of trying to affect that change.

In a democracy, people decide on political views by voting. As long as people keep their views to themselves and don't harass coworkers, why would we care what views they hold? Unless the person in question starts calling for physical abuse etc. But then it's a police matter, not lynching crowds.

That specific case is very wrong in many cases. Dude basically caved in and got out of politics. Yet his political enemies carried on. What's the lesson? If you ever say something contraversial, the only way is to double-down, because you'll be hunted forever? Is voicing a contraversial opinion in one's youth worse than doing heavy crimes? Since ex-prisoners re-integration is quite a big thing.

I don't understand the point. Make people scared to step out of line? Create whole underclass of people who have nothing to loose for the rest of their lives? Both options are straight out of USSR playbook.

> The fact is that social pressure is generally what keeps us from falling into barbarism. Can it be abused? Sure. Anything can be abused. Even what you're suggesting can and is being abused.

Today's social pressure is used for barbarism. And it's so twisted that it's not only not stopping good thing, but even pushing wrong things. E.g. we had LGBT protest. Some people held a counter-protest. Then one famous LGBT dude went to counter-protesters, forced himself onto one of the main counter-protesters and kissed him. Sexual assault in public right there. Yet many shitheads went on to proclaim how cool this is. And LGBT dude didn't get into any legal problems. Wonder what would happen if a counter-protester would do the same to some girl on the other side. Somehow I really doubt the consequences would be the same :) Sort of like black vs White capitalisation BS.

Re: The teen mental illness epidemic is international (2023)

#924

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Not sure how you got to this conclusion from the initial post. My point was condemning somebody to existence in this world is.

that's even more insane

I dont think you can argue your position without reverting to a sunken cost fallacy or an ideological ignorance of the amount of suffering inflicted through simple existence, even in the best of circumstances.

If you want to argue that suicide is always an option, let me remind you that this is how the Romans justified the conditions of slavery.

I could always be wrong here, but i dont think you are able to explain how. To put it bluntly, fanatics never can. Or want to because they prefer feeling right. Pls do explain how i am wrong here.

Re: The teen mental illness epidemic is international (2023)

#925
post #923

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> another group prevents speaker from making his speech... That is preventing from speaking. How are they preventing it? Physically holding the doors closed? > Allowing to fire people because of their political views is a very fine line. You can hold whatever political views you want. But people want only the positive results of broadcasting their political views and none of the negative. One might want to change the…

> How are they preventing it? Physically holding the doors closed? Looks like that does happen. No? Or just pushing university administrations to cancel speakers they just approved. > But people want only the positive results of broadcasting their political views and none of the negative. But then why should that person be completely sheltered from any negative consequences of trying to affect that change. In a democ…

People act on their political views by voting -- the decided on political views through what they hear and read. We agree that as long as people keep their views to themselves we don't care what views they hold. And we obviously agree that harassment is bad, lynching is bad, sexual harassment is bad. These continued straw men don't really add anything here.

> E.g. we had LGBT protest.

In the same city where you were? Did you personally see this protest? What do the LGBT protesters want? And there were counter-protesters? What do the counter-protesters want?

Anyway, you've provided all these weird small examples but I don't really get the point. If you feel personally aggrieved by how society reacts to your views, I'm sorry too bad. Society is free to react negatively or positively! Complaining that people who really don't like terrible ideas should keep that to themselves isn't very convincing to me.

If you take all the harassment away, which with both agree is bad, then it's just two groups of people expressing their opinions. If university administrators are convinced to change their minds because of protests then that just means the protest worked. We both agree that protests are good and protests exist to achieve a goal. Not all protests are good and not all goals are good for society but that doesn't matter.

Re: The teen mental illness epidemic is international (2023)

#926
post #755

All other issues aside, it would be shocking if reported rates of teen mental illness did not increase as long-standing stigmas gradually wane and these topic become more acceptable to speak about. If your kid cut themself in 1975, what were you going to do? Ask you husband to spend money to "shrink their head"? More likely you'd hide it, like past generations hid most of their traumas. Now, there are many outlets fo…

And the destigmatisation happened in 2012? I think it happened much earlier than that.

I suppose it depends on where you are. My work sent me from the US to the UK for six months in 2016. The difference in mental health stigma between these two first world nations was staggering. From what I've heard, it's even worse for eastern Europe.

Re: The teen mental illness epidemic is international (2023)

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> most adults over 30 were illiterate Literacy was over 95% in 2010 in Indonesia. It takes 5 seconds to Google for it. Since most of Indonesia are Moslems, they learn to read the Koran at an early age. Yes, I know that small parts of Lombok are Hindus.

I was going off what the family I stayed with in Kuta told me. The mother of the family could not read. Indonesia is quite diverse. There are many isolated ethnic groups. On Lombok material quality of life can vary quite a bit from one village to the next, as can their commitment to Islam.

Kuta? Now, I am completely lost. You stayed in Bali (where Kuta is located) and the family was telling you about life in a the next island (Lombok). Strange. I would have not believed it unless they had intimate ties to Lombok.

Re: The teen mental illness epidemic is international (2023)

#928
post #291

I find it fascinating how--according to these comments--easy it is to identify a single culprit, the all-mighty smartphone. Seems like gaslighting. Don't get me wrong, Always-Online is likely a contributing factor, but I highly doubt it is the root cause. I cant help but think of Smith: "it is purpose that defines, purpose that binds us", that purpose is something that we--in our modern society--lack more day by day.…

> In essence, nobody needs nobody else anymore, because frankly, we dont need each other for survival anymore. Individualism is advanced enough to have destroyed most need for sticking together. Fascinating to see how far people are willing to go to not name the root cause: technology itself. It’s unthinkable to so many that modern technology as a whole may in fact be a bad idea.

While I am sometimes tempted to just blame it on technology, as someone who is arguably more dependant on tech then most people, I cant really just blame it on tech. Me is blind, and without technology, I am not even sure if I wouldn't be placed in some sort of institution. IOW, without technology, I might have been enslaved by humanity because "they" likely wouldnt have known how to integrate me in a useful way. With technology, I can at least free myself in a few situations, with adds up to at least allowing me to exist independantly. But that is a very specific example... I am aware of that. So maybe your intutition is still right. Without technology, some of us might be worse off, but nobody knows what it would do to humanity as a whole.

Re: The teen mental illness epidemic is international (2023)

#929
post #923

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> How are they preventing it? Physically holding the doors closed? Looks like that does happen. No? Or just pushing university administrations to cancel speakers they just approved. > But people want only the positive results of broadcasting their political views and none of the negative. But then why should that person be completely sheltered from any negative consequences of trying to affect that change. In a democ…

People act on their political views by voting -- the decided on political views through what they hear and read. We agree that as long as people keep their views to themselves we don't care what views they hold. And we obviously agree that harassment is bad, lynching is bad, sexual harassment is bad. These continued straw men don't really add anything here. > E.g. we had LGBT protest. In the same city where you were?…

> People act on their political views by voting -- the decided on political views through what they hear and read. We agree that as long as people keep their views to themselves we don't care what views they hold. And we obviously agree that harassment is bad, lynching is bad, sexual harassment is bad. These continued straw men don't really add anything here.

Running for an office with political views is part of acting on their political views. If you keep your political views to yourself at workplace, but you run for an office with them... Should your coworkers care or not? Or are you allowed to have any political views as long as you don't participate in the democratical process? :)

> What do the LGBT protesters want? And there were counter-protesters? What do the counter-protesters want?

I'm not sure if exact topics change wether sexual assault is fine or not. But it was pro and against same sex civic partnership if it makes any difference for you.

> Complaining that people who really don't like terrible ideas should keep that to themselves isn't very convincing to me.

Political ideas should be discussed at political level. Debates, elections and so on. Not all-out war where stepping out of line may ruin one's life. Especially with today's highly polarized political climate where „terrible ideas“ label is attached very easily.

> If you take all the harassment away, which with both agree is bad, then it's just two groups of people expressing their opinions. If university administrators are convinced to change their minds because of protests then that just means the protest worked.

IMO it's closer to mob rule forcing employers or university administration act in one way or another.

In any case, if the opinions are not illegal (= promoting violence etc), refusing employment or forbidding on-campus speech for such opinions feels a wee authoritarian. There's a very very fine line between employers/universities rights and society forcing dominant narrative and sanitising public discourse.

Would you like to be fired if some idea you hold would be seen as „terrible“ by your employer (or a mob forces them to act so)? Given how what is acceptable changed in the past decade or two, who knows how it will change in next few decades.

Re: The teen mental illness epidemic is international (2023)

#930
post #929

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People act on their political views by voting -- the decided on political views through what they hear and read. We agree that as long as people keep their views to themselves we don't care what views they hold. And we obviously agree that harassment is bad, lynching is bad, sexual harassment is bad. These continued straw men don't really add anything here. > E.g. we had LGBT protest. In the same city where you were?…

> People act on their political views by voting -- the decided on political views through what they hear and read. We agree that as long as people keep their views to themselves we don't care what views they hold. And we obviously agree that harassment is bad, lynching is bad, sexual harassment is bad. These continued straw men don't really add anything here. Running for an office with political views is part of acti…

> Should your coworkers care or not? Or are you allowed to have any political views as long as you don't participate in the democratical process? :)

If think your political views involve taking the rights away from your coworkers or even causing them to feel unsafe I think they have the right to care? If I'm your coworker and I want to take away your rights, I think you'd want to care about that right? You're not just going to sit on you ass like a chump and do nothing.

> But it was pro and against same sex civic partnership if it makes any difference for you.

Why would someone be against same sex civic partnership? If you're not homosexual, it doesn't impact you at all.

> Especially with today's highly polarized political climate where „terrible ideas“ label is attached very easily.

And yet terrible ideas seem more common these days than ever.

> IMO it's closer to mob rule forcing employers or university administration act in one way or another.

What's the difference between a peaceful mob and a protest? People getting together to affect change is a "mob" if you don't like why they're saying and a "protest" if you do.

> refusing employment or forbidding on-campus speech for such opinions feels a wee authoritarian.

Sure, and you know what is also authoritarian? Authoritarians sharing authoritarian ideas, convincing others, and implementing. If you're tolerant of intolerance than you up with nothing but intolerance and you achieve authoritarianism that way. It's not like there's no historical precedent for this. "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing"

> There's a very very fine line between employers/universities rights and society forcing dominant narrative and sanitising public discourse.

Yes there is a fine line. I'm accepting of that fine line but you want to just eliminate it. It's not that you for for free speech rights, it's just that you want one group to have them and another group to be restricted from having them. You accept that speech is important but you don't grasp why -- because it's meant to accomplish something. Speech is powerful, useful, and even dangerous.

> Would you like to be fired if some idea you hold would be seen as „terrible“ by your employer (or a mob forces them to act so)?

I'm willing to accept that. I believe my own political ideas are open and accepting enough that my coworkers and employers wouldn't care. And if they did care, then I wouldn't want to be employed by them.

> Given how what is acceptable changed in the past decade or two, who knows how it will change in next few decades.

The only constant in life is change.

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