Hence I said
my/our primary fork, not
the primary fork.
If I were in the position of releasing something⁰: the community, should one or more coalesce around a work, can do/say what it likes, but my primary fork is what I say it is¹. It might be theirs, it might be not. I might consider myself part of that community, or not.
It should be noted that possibility of “the community” or other individual/team/etc taking a “we are the captain now” position (rather than “this is great, look what we've done with it too” which I would consider much more healthy and friendly) is what puts some people off opening their toy projects, at all or just until they have them to a point they are happy with or happy letting go at.
> Does it really matter what is the "primary fork" for those working on something to "scratch their own itch"?
It may do further down the line, if something bigger than just the scratching comes from the idea, or if the creator is particularly concerned about acknowledgement of their position as the originator².
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[0] I'm not ATM. I have many ideas/plans, some of them I've mused for many years old, but I'm lacking in time/organisation/etc!
[1] That sounds a lot more combative than I intend, but trying to reword just makes it too long-winded/vague/weird/other
[2] I wouldn't be, but I imagine others would. Feelings on such matters vary widely, and rightly so.