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> Constantly nagging your coworkers because you can't figure out how to do your job on your own is not. This is the problem: you've invented this scenario. There is a gaping middle ground between what people are describing and your stereotype of what they "must really mean"?
I think the problem is that too many of us have experienced this scenario, and had it described much in the way that the OP of the thread did. Too many people are too un-self-aware to recognize that their "just a 5-minute question" is being asked because they have not internalized the knowledge , rather than because it's genuinely something that they haven't had an opportunity to learn—too un-self-aware to recognize…
Of course this has nothing to say with selfishness or else. It's simply that each Group project their own ideas to the outward world -- so people who like to outreach think other people like that too, while people who doesn't think the inverse. But taking a step back as a third party, we would realize that Group 2 is usually more harmed than benefited.