Reading between the lines: your co-founder is reliant upon you and your network and skills to raise funds. But if the pivot was at his urging, then the only honorable thing to do is what you propose in the last paragraph.
Ask HN: I am a Co-founder looking to leave startup before a raise, how to handle
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Re: Ask HN: I am a Co-founder looking to leave startup before a raise, how to handle
#12It's nice to stay friends with people but at the end of the day you're not a charity. If you aren't being paid and your heart isn't in it just make a plan to leave sooner rather than later. It'll damage your reputation if you're not open with investors (ie raise then leave) which means you'd have to raise, stick it out another year or so then leave which is all going to cost you in time, money and motivation. But a y…
Re: Ask HN: I am a Co-founder looking to leave startup before a raise, how to handle
#13If you were diagnosed stage 4 brain cancer, you'd just leave now, and no one would be upset.
People are upset for a day, and then they move on (see OpenAI?). Leave now. If the investors think the team can succeed, they'll invest, if not they won't invest. Full stop. The future is your co-founder's problem.
You can also leave just after the raise, it's really as you wish. Investors know the drill. They know you could be hit by a bus 2 minutes after signing the check. Don't listen to whoever tells you what to do and what not to do. If people remain angry against you, well they just haven't understood the rules of the game.
Be free.
Re: Ask HN: I am a Co-founder looking to leave startup before a raise, how to handle
#14If your dislike of the new model is not that visceral then staying on as a paper adviser avoids the external appearance of serious discord, and phasing out your involvement avoids an abrupt transition, but you can't be dishonest about no longer doing the day-to-day stuff with investors.
Re: Ask HN: I am a Co-founder looking to leave startup before a raise, how to handle
#15See if anyone in the company or market would be willing to step in for your role.
Discuss the possibility of you raising a new round, staying six months, and leaving.
Also evaluate the legal situation when you leave.
Despite the fact you've invested your time and money in the company, it still haven't found PMF or anything, so try to give equity away, it will make it easier for you to jump ship and move ahead.
Re: Ask HN: I am a Co-founder looking to leave startup before a raise, how to handle
#16I thorny issue for sure. One suggestion is update the current investors that you will be leaving and you will create a succession plan that includes finding a new CTO (co-founder) to take on your role. For new investors, tell them clearly what that plan is, that you believe in the firm and you are willing to provide some of your shares to the new CTO. Accept that you will stay on until you and your co-founder can fin…
Re: Ask HN: I am a Co-founder looking to leave startup before a raise, how to handle
#17So the best thing to do is to be honest with yourself and your cofounder/team. This means you need to let the cofounder and team know that it is time for you to move on. If you stay for them so that somehow a fundraise can happen, you are setting them up for failure because the later you leave, the more damage you will do.
It is one of those wounds where you have to rip the band aid off. Take short term pain and move on. Good luck.
Re: Ask HN: I am a Co-founder looking to leave startup before a raise, how to handle
#18If you don't tell investors you want out, raise money, and leave shortly thereafter, you will burn all of those relationships and damage your reputation - it's a small world. It's also very disingenuous. Investors are betting on a committed team, that will go through hell and high-water to try to make this venture work - you already know you aren't that committed. And no one can be more committed than the CEO.
If you can't get behind the pivot, the only other thing you can do is work with existing investors (at the seed stage this isn't really an option) or find a founder with previous exit, an EIR looking to step into a company, our an early employee / non CEO cofounder who exited and wants to do it again - and see if they'd be interested in the CEO role - It's a find your own replacement scenario.
As far as your equity goes - you'll get diluted a bunch, but that's okay. It's going to be hard to hear, but no real investors will allow a non-participating, former founder, of a company that doesn't have a product or any traction (in your case your starting over with a pivot) to keep 10%. That's just too much of the cap table for not enough of a business / individual contribution. It's sucks, but if you stuck around and made it to a priced round, all of your equity would get clawed back and be subject to vesting again anyway (most likely). It's just the way it goes. You deserve something for your troubles and work, but it's not going to be 10%, not going to be anywhere close.
Good luck.
Re: Ask HN: I am a Co-founder looking to leave startup before a raise, how to handle
#19I do a fair bit of investing and advising (both for startups and venture funds). If you are the founding CEO and you are looking to leave, the most likely outcome for a company that's early, and without any sort of product market fit, is the company will die. If you don't tell investors you want out, raise money, and leave shortly thereafter, you will burn all of those relationships and damage your reputation - it's…
Re: Ask HN: I am a Co-founder looking to leave startup before a raise, how to handle
#20If there isn’t then you can leave anytime. No one will bother you.