There's all the rest of open source, and then there's SQLite. A public domain software that doesn't accept contributions from outsiders, and that happens to run much of the world. And it just keeps getting better and better and better, and faster and faster and faster. I don't know how these guys manage to succeed where almost all other projects fail, but I hope they keep going.
- They draft behind others, and I mean this in a good way. They seem to eschew trailblazing new features, but keep a close eye on alternatives (esp. Postgres) and how use cases are emerging. When a sufficiently interesting concept has stabilized, they bring it to SQLite.
- Closely related to this, they seem to stay clear of technical and community distractions. They have their plans and execute.
- I don't know if D. Richard Hipp is considered a BDFL, but that's my impression and he seems good at it.