> I don’t know the whole setup, but the inspector is likely right.
That's an interesting start to your comment. So you don't know the whole setup but you do know the inspector is likely right.
Well: if he was likely right he would have not shied away from putting it in writing. What happened was that halfway into the conversation he realized he was wrong, hightailed it out of there and simply didn't want to admit that he was wrong.
I do know the whole setup. And I have spent enough time installing high stuff made out of metal (mostly: antenna masts) to know that the last thing you want is to give lightning a short path into your dwelling.
His whole experience seemed to be based on simple domestic installations, and instead of just admitting that he didn't know exactly what to do and to go look it up or ask someone more experienced to look it over he dug in. Human nature, I get it, but this is safety we're talking about and the amount of flak the OP is getting in this thread from people that likely have more experience with keyboards than with real world engineering is telling. Just like you: they don't know the whole setup but they'll argue that it is unsafe, will void your insurance, will get you investigated for arson(!) and might kill your kids.
You last paragraph is exactly the problem: he outright forbade me to ground at the base of the tower because that was in his opinion unsafe. But it wasn't his life and property that was at stake.
I've seen up close what lightning will do to various pieces of gear, it isn't pretty, to put it mildly and you make sure you keep it as far away from your house as you can. And have spark gaps to ground at the point of entry for your power cable, just in case.
Finally: the proof of the pudding is in the eating. When after a year we pulled the tower down again there was evidence of multiple strikes on the nacelle body at the top of the tower, all of which were dealt with gracefully, to the point that we didn't even realize the machine had been hit. What helped is that for the whole installation we had a massive amount of help from an experienced wind turbine vendor who took an interest in our project.