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Re: Ask HN: Which book do you keep asking people to read?

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Since most people get psychology exactly wrong: First, Life Strategies by Dr. Phil (the ONLY book by Dr. Phil that I recommend) Particularly, Law #3: People Do What Works quote: "By “works for you,” I mean you get some kind of payoff for performing the seemingly undesirable acts. And as you will see, this formula holds true even if at some other, perhaps more conscious or apparent level, you recognize that the behavi…

This maybe a controversial comment, but I think Dr. Phil gets psychology exactly wrong. Anyone who exploits people’s mental health issues, relationship drama’s, or compounds stereotypes about these issues for the sake of a television show isn’t practicing any kind of ethical psychology, and if you can’t get something as basic as ethical psychological practice right - you’re exactly wrong. You can raise awareness, educate or have a discussion about mental health issues etc without exploiting people’s personal struggles.

Re: Ask HN: Which book do you keep asking people to read?

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Since most people get psychology exactly wrong: First, Life Strategies by Dr. Phil (the ONLY book by Dr. Phil that I recommend) Particularly, Law #3: People Do What Works quote: "By “works for you,” I mean you get some kind of payoff for performing the seemingly undesirable acts. And as you will see, this formula holds true even if at some other, perhaps more conscious or apparent level, you recognize that the behavi…

This maybe a controversial comment, but I think Dr. Phil gets psychology exactly wrong. Anyone who exploits people’s mental health issues, relationship drama’s, or compounds stereotypes about these issues for the sake of a television show isn’t practicing any kind of ethical psychology, and if you can’t get something as basic as ethical psychological practice right - you’re exactly wrong. You can raise awareness, edu…

That's a thoughtful comment. I don't recommend anything else by him, and since I read the book long ago, and outlined it, perhaps I forgot some insensitive material which didn't make it into the outline.

I wouldn't go near, nor recommend anything else he wrote or said on TV.

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