Everyone lives in their own world in their mind. A persistent theme I see in society in general is inability to grasp how others could have a completely different perspective and interpretation of anything.
That said, OOP's sentiment is largely caused by housing costs across the world.
Western society at least is two faced, on one hand liberty of the individual is emphasized but at the same time society is extremely hostile to those who either hold incompatible opinions or just don't fit in.
If you think about it, no government or human has authority to regulate the fact that a human exists. What many like OOP look for is the ability to self-determine without being policed by society or being enslaved, not by our natural needs such as food, shelter and water but by the requirements of society such as paying taxes, registering in databases, having information collected about us and the used to control us.
The typical american for example, simply to exist and sustain themselves as an adult has to get a birth certificate ,SSN, fingerprint taken, undergo drivers trainin and exam which involves more data collection, get a drivers license, can't buy a car outright so finance one which involves too much crap to list here, and get mandatory insurance for the car (forced to do business), mandatory health insurance enrollment unless they want to pay a tax penalty, piss in a cup to prove their drug usage innocence, in many physical jobs you have to let a guy massage your balls to prove you are not herniated (yes,really. Very common), if you do manage to get a job, you now need to live somewhere close which means renting for most and that in itself is a contract you enter where how you live in detail can get regulated by the landlord and the after you pay all these slave masters how you spend the money you have is also regulated heavily from food, drugs, sex,etc... and most people can't even get that far without working multiple jobs, if they are even that lucky. And if you have family, dependents, sickness anywhere that's a whole other story.
I mean, I get your view and I am with you. I like instant online shopping, doordash, airbnb, uber, walmart,etc... and I am privileged enough to enjoy that right now but you must understand the frustration of this living. There is no breathing room for most, especially younger people in their 20s and early 30s.
It's tempting to wonder, what if I could build a house from logs in the woods. Hunt and fish for food, read books for entertainment. Doesn't even have to be on your own.
We all get just one life and it's a shame how it is wasted working from one weekend on to the other being regulated and puppetted until you die.
Society benefits only those who are compliant with its rules and fit in properly. I mean these days, what society? It's just everything you say and do constantly recorded and scrutinized. Netflix had a moview recently "old dads" or something, it was frustratingly too real. Everything is political, no one is real, everyone is waiting for a chance to stab the non-conformist in the back. They know not the meaning of tolerance and inclusivity. Everyone seems to be an unauthentic murderous parrot if i can exagerate a bit. How can people manage not being themselves for so long!?
If you don't already have your own trusted people and places, it's best to avoid people as much as possible.
Life is meant to be lived, not barely survived, grateful society has tolerated your existence.
In my opinion the focus on making life as long as possible or allowing a society to exist as long as possible is misplaced. A life well lived should be everyone's goal, whatever well lived means for you.