Young people don't want to work hard because there's little incentive. No matter how hard you work, unless you're in the top 5%, you're far priced out of most places most people want to live. You can afford everything comfortably beside housing & health care (which you don't need much of when you're young) on a relatively low wage in the US. So you've pretty much given up on housing. What's the point in working hard?
So you're not going to be able to live where most people want to live . That's far different from having no house. "Giving up on housing" is not the right answer. "Start small and work your way up", like most of us did. See, when you hit 20, you're looking at your parents, and you're seeing them when they're 45 or 50. You're not seeing them when they were 20. You expect that you're going to be able to live like they…
Median weekly earnings of the nation's 122.1 million full-time wage and salary workers were $1,118 in the third quarter of 2023 (1118x52=58136)
412,020/58136=7.09 years wages to pay off a home
Median house price 1980: $64,600
The 1980 median family income was $21,020
64600/21020=3.07 years wages to pay off a home
https://www.redfin.com/us-housing-market
https://www.gobankingrates.com/investing/real-estate/how-muc...
https://www.bls.gov/news.release/pdf/wkyeng.pdf
https://www.census.gov/library/publications/1982/demo/p60-13...
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2023:
412020 30 year loan at 6.5% =
Total principal paid $412,020
Total interest paid $525,508.80
Monthly payments $2,604.25
58136/12=monthly salary of 4844.6
53.7% of monthly pay going to home loan (at 0 down)
1980:
64600 30 year loan at 14% =
Total principal paid $64,600
Total interest paid $210,953.77
Monthly payments $765.43
21020/12=monthly salary of 1751.6
43% of monthly pay going to home loan (at 0 down)