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Children of married parents do better, but America is moving the other way

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Is it that marriage itself is beneficial or that people capable of maintaining a relationship make better parents? Divorce is significantly more common for bipolar, paranoid, and schizophrenic people for example. So I think we need to look at widows or something to control for those kinds of issues.

Parents being formally committed to one another.

Re: Children of married parents do better, but America is moving the other way

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Proof that we need more "family values"; more religious conservatism? This is what a lot of people seem to believe --- people who've never bothered to look at the actual evidence --- or who refuse to accept it once they see. A detailed county by county survey of the entire country shows that the most religious and conservative parts of the country have higher divorces rates by far. Getting married in the Bible Belt a…

that study's numbers make no sense. Looks like a hit job on southern conservatives. Try this: https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statist...

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

I'd like to see a control on this. Is there a group of people who thought they were married, but by bureaucratic snafu actually weren't? Did they have different outcomes than people who were really married?

Widows/ers would also be a good control.

Widows/ers may have some associated confounding factors

Re: Children of married parents do better, but America is moving the other way

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Single parents raising kids should be charged with child abuse. Get married before you engage in reproductive or recreational pseduo-reproductive activities. If your spouse does, find another widow(er) in the same spot and marry them for the kids. It's not that hard. People knew this 4,000 years ago.

What an archaic way of thought. I can only hope you're not being serious.

Re: Children of married parents do better, but America is moving the other way

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Single parents raising kids should be charged with child abuse. Get married before you engage in reproductive or recreational pseduo-reproductive activities. If your spouse does, find another widow(er) in the same spot and marry them for the kids. It's not that hard. People knew this 4,000 years ago.

Holy fucking shit. This is the Poe's Lawiest Poeslaw I've seen in a while.

Re: Children of married parents do better, but America is moving the other way

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Is it that marriage itself is beneficial or that people capable of maintaining a relationship make better parents? Divorce is significantly more common for bipolar, paranoid, and schizophrenic people for example. So I think we need to look at widows or something to control for those kinds of issues.

This question is answered in the interview. She is saying that a household with a stable long lasting relationship is what’s driving these better outcomes. She’s also saying that in America marriage (unfortunately) seems to be the only way to keep people together for a long while (long enough for a child to not experience a parade of parents by the time they are 15 according to the article). In my personal opinion. I…

Europe has a better social safety network and wants people to have more kids.

Re: Children of married parents do better, but America is moving the other way

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> Kearney says she's not advocating that children live in a household filled with marital tension or where parents are unhappy or mistreating each other. Then what is the proposed solution? Pointing out the problem is the easy part. But if you want more people to be married, and if they're currently choosing not to get married, then you need to either force them to get married against their will (institutionalized sh…

You don't get it, maternity leave and socialized childcare is the devil talking. The downfall of society is because the liberal agenda to brainwash our our women and kids, the former with feminism making them think they can do things other then be homemakers, and the latter because those families with working women have to send their kids to childcare where they're taught collectivism, normalized sexual deviancy, and…

Ok, this is one end of the sarcastic stereotype, but the other end is that:

No one needs to take responsibility anymore, live life to the full, have sex with 200 people, take drugs and experiment, and eventually at 40 try and have a child with IVF because at that point that’s your only shot. If you don’t like who you had it with after 5 years, just leave them, it’s fine. Oh and then pass off your children’s moral social education to bad schools.

That’s also not a good plan. Neither is the one you talked about, but society definitely needs to find a golden middle ground, because something is really bad right now. The progressive liberal path really doesn’t work in the long run.

Re: Children of married parents do better, but America is moving the other way

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Is it that marriage itself is beneficial or that people capable of maintaining a relationship make better parents? Divorce is significantly more common for bipolar, paranoid, and schizophrenic people for example. So I think we need to look at widows or something to control for those kinds of issues.

Obligatory note that it’s unethical to do a real control experiment at society wide levels, so we will never untangle causation/correlation.

Re: Children of married parents do better, but America is moving the other way

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

This question is answered in the interview. She is saying that a household with a stable long lasting relationship is what’s driving these better outcomes. She’s also saying that in America marriage (unfortunately) seems to be the only way to keep people together for a long while (long enough for a child to not experience a parade of parents by the time they are 15 according to the article). In my personal opinion. I…

Europe has a better social safety network and wants people to have more kids.

Germany has the same fertility rate as Japan.

Re: Children of married parents do better, but America is moving the other way

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> Where are the dads?

> One of the biggest issues is that women seem to be giving up on men, particularly those without college degrees

this is about what i would expect from npr

it has nothing to do with welfare starting in the 1960s where you can visibly see a breakup in families by incentivizing divorce, its.... college

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