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Re: Merlin's Wisdom Project

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In the past I've lambasted some of these collections of wisdom. There is a certain point in a man's life where he feels he wants to write down a collection of hard-learned thoughts and experiences. These often appear on HN. Most often they are pretentious. For whatever reason, I liked this one. I can't say it is a better collection than others that I have pretty harshly criticized. I can't say it is better written. I…

would love to see some of the others and your associated comments

Re: Merlin's Wisdom Project

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> Never argue on the internet. No one will remember whether you won or lost the argument; they'll just remember that you are the sort of person who argues on the internet.

This is burned in my mind and doesn't anchor enough of my judgement of what to engage with on the internet yet, but I've never yet been steered wrong by it.

EDIT - This is equally applicable to realms outside of the internet. You have to be really right to be remembered as the person who was right about something in your friend group or coworkers. Like, you have to prevent someone from dying levels of correct. Otherwise you're just the person who kept talking about something until everyone gave in. And either way, they'll still remember you as that person who argues about things.

Re: Merlin's Wisdom Project

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post #12

In the past I've lambasted some of these collections of wisdom. There is a certain point in a man's life where he feels he wants to write down a collection of hard-learned thoughts and experiences. These often appear on HN. Most often they are pretentious. For whatever reason, I liked this one. I can't say it is a better collection than others that I have pretty harshly criticized. I can't say it is better written. I…

Merlin is probably one of the least pretentious people I’ve come across online.

I'm biased some by having listened to him talk on a lot of these thoughts over the years, but in general, I find his "wisdom" so easy to digest mostly because it feels like it comes from a place of earnest humility. There's little implicit boasting or success in it. It's often practical to a fault.

Re: Merlin's Wisdom Project

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Merlin's podcasts, particularly Roderick on the Line and the amazing Reconcilable Differences with John Siracusa, are amongst my favourite things to listen to.

It's perhaps a more... difficult listen, but Do By Friday has a special place in my listening. It's perhaps the least about technology, but the most about people and what this sort of Wisdom is about. It's hard to recommend because it's changed so much over the years and it's mercurial over weeks and events, but it's similar to Roderick in being a very raw and rambly show, but more about Merlin and Alex.

Re: Merlin's Wisdom Project

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post #3

> Frequently ask yourself: do I want to be right, or do I want to be happy? I always felt that people giving this advice assume the latter is preferable. Is there something defective about me if I prefer the former?

It's instant vs. delayed gratification. Being right is seductive, and immediately rewarding. You are perfectly normal.

I'm not even sure that's always the case. There's plenty of cases where you can be right, but not seen to be right for years, and be miserable for all of that time, and still be miserable even when you're seen to be right at the end of it. If everyone you're working with is pursuing a poor plan that may fail, is it better to fight them about how you may be smarter than them over the next few years, or just be along for the ride, hope for the best, and then be courteous about it if it does go wrong and not rub in your foresight?

Re: Merlin's Wisdom Project

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post #3

> Frequently ask yourself: do I want to be right, or do I want to be happy? I always felt that people giving this advice assume the latter is preferable. Is there something defective about me if I prefer the former?

In any case, I’m one of you.

Re: Merlin's Wisdom Project

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Who?

Was wondering if everyone was supposed to know who this was....read some of the comments that mention these kinds of wisdom lists ending up on HN here and there...

It's like a name that seems sorta familiar but dunno if it just sounds like someone else from tech or something.

Interesting a quick HN search shows a bunch of shares posts that got any traction but they're all like 14-15 years ago?

Was Merlin Mann more of a thing a decade+ ago?

Re: Merlin's Wisdom Project

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Who?

Was wondering if everyone was supposed to know who this was....read some of the comments that mention these kinds of wisdom lists ending up on HN here and there... It's like a name that seems sorta familiar but dunno if it just sounds like someone else from tech or something. Interesting a quick HN search shows a bunch of shares posts that got any traction but they're all like 14-15 years ago? Was Merlin Mann more of…

(searches some more)

I'm not out of the loop here generally... I just now realized I hadn't heard the name in a good while. Of course back in a certain era of blogging and stuff mid-00s now it's coming back but shrug!

Re: Merlin's Wisdom Project

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Who?

Was wondering if everyone was supposed to know who this was....read some of the comments that mention these kinds of wisdom lists ending up on HN here and there... It's like a name that seems sorta familiar but dunno if it just sounds like someone else from tech or something. Interesting a quick HN search shows a bunch of shares posts that got any traction but they're all like 14-15 years ago? Was Merlin Mann more of…

He was. He ran the productivity blog 43folders and did a bunch of speaking.
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