I'm very pessimistic on CEPH usage in the scenario you have - may be I've missed it, but seen nothing about upgrading networking, as by default you gonna have 1Gbit on single interface used for public network/internal vSwitch.
Even by your benchmarks, write test is 19 iops (block size is huge though)
Max bandwidth (MB/sec): 92
Min bandwidth (MB/sec): 40
Average IOPS: 19
Stddev IOPS: 2.62722
Max IOPS: 23
Min IOPS: 10
while single HDD drive would give ~ 120 iops. single 3 years old NVMe datacenter edition, gives ~ 33000 iops with 4k block + fdatasync=1CEPH would be very limiting factor in 1Gbit networking I believe - I'd put clear disclaimer on that for fellow sysadmins.
P.S. The amount of work you done is huge and appreciated.