Here we go again... NSO Group has a long history of 0-click, 0-days against iMessage, and just a few months ago Kaspersky caught a different zero day iMessage exploit targeting their staff. If Apple repeatedly fails at securing their devices from an attack vector that has been demonstrated over, and over, and over... no wonder China is banning government officials from using their devices.
If you show me software that's immune to advanced 0-days, I'll show you software that isn't usable.
We can and should improve development practises, mitigate vulnerabities (ASLR, WAFs, etc), isolate systems from each other, and model threats in a way that we know where and how to do those things. It's not easy but just moaning "everything sucks" isn't how to fix it.