I had an argument with my therapist about this. My wife just gave birth to my daughter, we moved a bookshelf my grandfather built for me when I was born into her nursery and now my office is a mess, my books and such scattered. The mess is stressing me out. I am looking for a bookshelf to replace it, and told him I haven’t found anything I thought would last the rest of my life for a reasonable price. He insists I do…
It sounds like your therapist is letting their personal opinions into your session. I'm not an expert, but that sounds like a professional no-no.
If you've got money for a therapist for this type of issue - it probably isn't.
You can get a custom-made bookshelf from Amish country for the cost of less than 5 therapy sessions.