Kris Nóva has died
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Re: Kris Nóva has died
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Sounds like your message implied that being autistic meant being an asshole, which categorically isn't true. You can be accused of being an asshole, it doesn't mean it's because of your autism though - and going "autistic = asshole" is absolutely worthy of a ban. Maybe don't be so quick to portray your own experiences onto autistic people as whole. If you wanted more specifics about what Kris meant by "don't be an as…
Re: Kris Nóva has died
#63Earlier quoted context omitted.
That is exactly my position, thank you for articulating it so eloquently.
You might want to update your original comment to clarify. It seems to be getting downvoted by people who misunderstanding the comment.
as others have mentioned, this topic is probably not a worthwhile one to bring up as the focus is on mourning one of our own.
Re: Kris Nóva has died
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#65Kris recently said how she was feeling the healthiest and happiest she had ever been.
The loss is gutting to those that know her, or only know of her.
For those that don't know, Kris created Hachyderm[1], which had incredible growth[2] after Elon Musk's Twitter takeover. She also created the Aurae runtime[3], and went on to create the Nivenly Foundation[4].
In Kris' own words,
"Fuck the internet, I'm gonna go climb mountains. If you can - if you're lucky enough - please also get outside, if you can."
If you can, take a break. Get outside, and just... take a moment to just /be/ outside.
RIP Kris [1] https://hachyderm.io/
[2] https://thenewstack.io/how-hashyderm-scaled-up-after-elon-mu...
[3] https://aurae.io
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#67https://krisnova.net/bio/>
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#68Re: Kris Nóva has died
#69Earlier quoted context omitted.
Sounds like your message implied that being autistic meant being an asshole, which categorically isn't true. You can be accused of being an asshole, it doesn't mean it's because of your autism though - and going "autistic = asshole" is absolutely worthy of a ban. Maybe don't be so quick to portray your own experiences onto autistic people as whole. If you wanted more specifics about what Kris meant by "don't be an as…
I think you may have misunderstood. (See sibling comments in this thread.)
It was put across in an asshole way, and bringing it up when it has no relevance to commiserating the loss of a great person and engineer, is an asshole move - autistic or not.