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Quite true there is some irony to that. There has been a little talk of building a local first community platform, sadly doesn't exist yet.
Discord's UX is miles ahead of Element, and I setup and maintain communities on that use both. For something like local-first, like a local principled makerspace, we are happy to deal with the friction and try and contribute back on Matrix/Element. That said, infrastructure churn can be disruptive. Don't envy your position.
Everyone else will believe your project is dead.